Relationship help Do
You have your eyes on someone and would like to get together with them. Instead of concentrating your energies into getting them, use that time and energy to make them want you instead. Remember that if you think that they’re so fabulous, chances are other people do too. Your job is not to try to join the pack and vie for their attention, but to concentrate on making yourself the person that stands out from all the rest of suitors.
Do keep an air of mystery. Don’t let it all fly out the first time you meet someone you think you may be interested in. This bores them. Let them want to meet you again to find out more. Let them have questions about who you are and what you do, to wonder about you when they’re at work, in the park, at the gym. Let them feel a smile coming on when they think about finding out more and more about you.
Invest in yourself. When all is said and done, even if you don’t succeed in finding a good relationship, your investment stays with you and you lose nothing. Learn a new language, take up an interesting game, join a gym, volunteer at a centre, go back to school etc. All of these things make you more attractive to the opposite sex.
Do keep an open mind, your good-looking, intelligent, popular, ideal person, may just be intelligent and average looking. However, if your mind is locked on false notions, you’re in danger of letting your soul-mate and parent of your future children slip out of your hands, and while you’re scouring the earth in futility ten years from now, he/she would be making someone else happy instead of you.