Relationship help for the less intuitive woman
Women are guilty of having affairs too, but in most cases, it’s the man who gets love-busy with a second or third partner. Learn to read the signs and decide if your guy is one of them. Your intuition would’ve already perked up its sharp antennas, so these signs are just here to clarify what you already know in your heart.
1. He cancels last minute when you’ve made plans to go out in public
He won’t want you to think that he doesn’t want to be seen with you, so he’ll say yes to any plans you’ve made. However, he’ll usually come up with a somewhat flimsy excuse at the last minute as to why he can’t go. He’ll encourage you to go with your friends and have a good time and will manage to make his way back to you once the outing is finished. He’s happy to stay in and watch a movie or chat afterwards, anything but go out in a crowd on the proper date you’ve waited for so long.
2. Your dates are always in the same place on the same side of town
Chances are the other lady lives on the opposite side of town to where your occasional dates are. When he’s sure she’s not going to be around he’ll take you out, but to an area and in a place where she’s least likely to be.
3. You’re not welcome to spend time with his friends/family
He doesn’t like it if you suggest hanging out with his mates, but especially if you suggest spending time with his sisters, cousins or other female relatives. He may trust his friends (to an extent) to keep his secrets, but he’s nervous that his female relatives won’t. Whenever or (if) you see his mum, he never leaves you two on your own. This is not because he’s so much in love with you (he doesn’t act so clingy otherwise), it’s because he’s afraid she may slip up and call you by someone else’s name.
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