Big Women Make Great Partners

I've been doing some research recently about big women and the reason behind which some men prefer them to their smaller counterparts. I came across several intriguing reasons, but the two that stand out for me were: some men think big women make great partners because they won't cheat on them (based on insecurities), and some men thing big women make great partners because their cultures predict that larger women are more attractive than thinner ones.

Whatever the reason, this seems to be a fascination even in the minds of the bigger women themselves. Personally, I still can't understand why some big women have so much confidence in themselves, (which they rightfully should) and others think of themselves as less than woman. Surely, our size should not define who we are!

Big women make great partners


My research led me to a very interesting article called, 10 Reasons Why Some Men Love Bigger Women (image taken from linked site) it encompassed all the research I've done and says the very things I wanted to highlight. Instead of writing up the article myself, I wanted to share it with you here. It turned up some very fascinating reasons why some men pick large women as opposed to thin ones, to spend their lives with.

The bottom line is that a woman's size does not determine what kind of wife she'll be. Big women make great wives and so do thin women. It's the beauty, loyalty, industriousness, and love on the inside that make a woman a suitable life partner. Sometimes however, if a woman is unhappy with her size (big or small), this insecurity and lack of body confidence can turn the relationship sour. Individual contentment is key to bringing contentment into the relationship.

Do you subscribe to the theory that some men pick big women because they feel they're so insecure, they'll be glad to have them, regardless of how they're treated? 
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Icy BC March 30, 2012 at 2:52 PM  

That's fascinating find information, Anne! This has to do with confidence inside the person and how they carry themselves.

Anne Lyken-Garner March 30, 2012 at 4:10 PM  

Definitely Icy. No matter what size you are, it's the confidence within you that makes you beautiful on the outside. I'm slender. I watch what I eat and exercise. I would hate for someone to say I'm unattractive or 'not real' because I'm skinny.

Judy SheldonWalker April 1, 2012 at 4:25 AM  

I would hope that love and attraction are based much more on the beauty inside the individual.

Harleena Singh April 1, 2012 at 5:53 PM  

Nice title Anne!

However, I really don't think that because they are big women, they should be loved or not loved more. I feel it's the person the men should see, not her size or figure.

These are all outer beauty that will vanish in some time, but the real inner beauty is what should matter most- isn't it? And men should realize this :)

Thanks for sharing :)

farouk April 2, 2012 at 9:26 AM  

that's some new info for me
thanks Anne :)

Anne Lyken-Garner is a published author, editor and freelance writer. Her specialities include relationships and confidence building. You can find her inspirational memoir here.
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