How To Keep The Fire Burning After Years Of Marriage

Marriage is a long road that definitely has its ups and downs. A common issue in most marriages after many years is a loss of a "spark". However, there are still many ways to keep your marriage alive and strong for as long as you and your partner are together: Read on for some great insight that's always worked for me.

Date Night
Making time for one another in a relationship, especially a marriage, is incredibly important. Everyday life is busy, as everyone knows. It can be difficult to make time for anything really, even when they're things you want to do. The same is true when trying to make time for your partner. A good way to make time for one another is to plan an ongoing weekly date night. This can be anything that they two of you enjoy doing together. It can be the typical dinner and a movie date, or it can be as simple as laying in bed and watching episodes of your favorite TV show. Whatever it is that you and your partner decide to do, the important thing is that you do it together. Spending this time is a great way to rekindle your love life

In order to keep the love alive in your very special marriage, it is important that affection still be a daily ingredient. Even small forms of affection like a regular morning kiss or a little daily flirting will take your relationship to new heights. These small signs of love mean much more than the actual action itself. It means that the love is not gone. It means the attraction is alive and well, and it's important that you both know this to be true.

To make your partner feel special, and therefore loved, it is a good idea to participate in small acts of kindness that your partner will appreciate. It will make the person you love feel important to you. It will also show them that you care about their needs and desires. Feeling appreciated makes one feel closer to another person, and feeling closer to your partner is the first step toward keeping your love strong for as long as you are together.

It's vital to maintain active communication. Keep in mind that communication is not just limited to the big things in your and your partner's lives. Knowing someone on a day-to-day level is important when truly trying to know a person. Not only will daily conversation give you more insight into the life of your lover, but it will also make them feel as though you care about them in every aspect of their life, even the mundane. See also, Marriage and Healthy Arguments.

If the spark starts to subside, there are a multitude of ways to reignite your relationship, and some can facilitate this much more quickly than others. One way to spark this fire quickly is a simple weekend away (or longer). This will give you one-on-one time with your partner to reconnect on a more intimate level. If you're in a new place, the feeling of exploring and discovering together has a very special effect on a couple. You might also consider heading somewhere familiar and special, to remind you of a time when you were first hot and heavy. If you can afford it, a week away anywhere can provide some much-needed privacy and intimacy.

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Marshall Richards writes on his education and career helping couples work through relationship issues. His recent work is on Online Master's in Counseling Degrees.


Jeremy Norton March 31, 2013 at 10:52 AM  

Despite the very busy schedule my partner and I have from work to attending the kids needs, we still try to give some time for ourselves. We still go out for a dinner and have some random talks. I also encourage him to still say sweet words before we go to sleep though he is not the vocal type of person.

Anne Lyken-Garner is a published author, editor and freelance writer. Her specialities include relationships and confidence building. You can find her inspirational memoir here.
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