tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5836188123556499972.post5237406501987698805..comments2023-01-19T23:06:32.913+00:00Comments on Relationship Blog: Relationship Help Forum: End Of Perfect RelationshipAnne Lyken-Garnerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01425485414456096031noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5836188123556499972.post-38629606145907172252013-03-13T16:22:26.298+00:002013-03-13T16:22:26.298+00:00Great article. I agree with you especially "T...Great article. I agree with you especially "Talking it through". Mostly, serious talk can change the situation and create a new ending.Chadhttp://imustdateher.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5836188123556499972.post-13471628028243822792013-01-22T05:02:46.420+00:002013-01-22T05:02:46.420+00:00Hello there! This post could not be written much b... <br />Hello there! This post could not be written much better! Looking at this post reminds me of my previous roommate! He continually kept preaching about this. I will send this article to him. Fairly certain he's going to have a very good read. Thanks for sharing!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5836188123556499972.post-90501018197505583782013-01-21T18:08:45.923+00:002013-01-21T18:08:45.923+00:00Great to see a fellow blogger helping out in relat...Great to see a fellow blogger helping out in relationships-check my blog out if you have time ;)Queen of the Ranthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14153375120518046774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5836188123556499972.post-20541806202427372612013-01-21T15:04:33.876+00:002013-01-21T15:04:33.876+00:00Hi Sarah,
That's one factor that's crucia...Hi Sarah,<br /><br />That's one factor that's crucially important within a relationship where both parties have kids. <br />As you said, reaching out to the kids (and even inviting them to spend time with you when your're together) will go a long way towards allaying some of his guilt. Of course, he has to work on his issues as well. Anne Lyken-Garnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01425485414456096031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5836188123556499972.post-66023686931649684472013-01-21T14:43:03.365+00:002013-01-21T14:43:03.365+00:00Hi Melanie,
I agree with Anne's advice. If y...Hi Melanie,<br /><br />I agree with Anne's advice. If you think he is just perfect for you, why not fight for him? Just take things slowly and try to reach out with his kids also as much as he did to you. You could spend some time with his kids together with yours. Don't rush into things and just enjoy the moment with him. Don't push him hard also since he is also adjusting with the new setup with his kids.Sarah Parkhttp://incometherapy.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5836188123556499972.post-64257193765103951112013-01-21T14:04:02.139+00:002013-01-21T14:04:02.139+00:00HI Harleena, thanks for your input. I think it sou...HI Harleena, thanks for your input. I think it sounds like they have shared custody. When things are new people find it hard to cope. Sadly, people do get used to the idea that they now share their kids with the other parent/at the other parent's house. It must be difficult to come to terms with the fact that you no longer have access to your kids when you want to - to hug them and kiss them whenever you feel like it. <br /><br />Yes, I think a few tweaks would sort this relationship out. As you said, it's already too hard to find someone to love you unconditionally, especially when you have kids. Anne Lyken-Garnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01425485414456096031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5836188123556499972.post-55877389639464206172013-01-21T13:49:04.258+00:002013-01-21T13:49:04.258+00:00I enjoyed reading this one Anne!
Yes, I am with y...I enjoyed reading this one Anne!<br /><br />Yes, I am with you here that when she got it all with a perfect man, a few tweaks here and there were all that were needed to make things work. It is really hard to find someone who loves you and your kids after a divorce, so for me she is just giving it all away.<br /><br />I would say that give him time and your full support during his tough and trying time. Help him overcome his guilt or grief, which he will, but you need to be patient and stand with him. He too would appreciate your support. Perhaps after a while there might come a time when he would learn to cope with his feelings and manage things where his kids are concerned. (I wonder if he's allowed custody of his kids or they are to stay with their mother)<br /><br />Thanks for sharing this with us. :)Harleena Singhhttp://www.aha-now.com/noreply@blogger.com