Relationship help forum; dumping someone hurts
Had a great relationship
He was dumped anyway
I know the healthy thing to do is to move on, especially since it was a conscious decision of mine to break up and stop trying to fake it. I am moving on and I’m feeling peaceful at times with the whole thing. I just can’t help wonder what would happen if we get involved again 5 years from now and things do work out.
My answer: dumping someone hurts
Not all relationships run the full mile
The thing to remember is that there were reasons why you broke up in the first place. It may take you 5 years to forget those reasons, but that does not mean they’ve disappeared, or that you would suddenly become compatible with him. An ex is an ex for a reason - a reason that does not go away with time. It’s not a good idea to re-visit and consume your stale vomit.
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